Identifying Common Behavioral Addictions
I spend a lot of time and effort in this space describing sexual addiction—what it is, how it can be identified, and…
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4th Annual Recovery Today Online Conference
Hi everyone! Today I want to tell you about a project that I’ve been working on that I hope you’ll join us…
Research Links Heavy Porn Use and Erectile Dysfunction
Psychotherapists dealing with sexual issues, in particular sex and porn addiction, have stated for several years that one of the consequences porn…
Enjoying the good days
Hi everyone. Today I want to talk about the idea of enjoying the good…
Dating Yourself
Over the past three years, I’ve done a lot of soul-searching in my recovery from codependence. I did not have my…
Can You Really Be Single, Sexless, and Happy?
Not long ago, in response to a cultural shift I’ve observed in recent years, I coined the term “sologamy,” defining it as…
Are You In Denial?
Denial…It ain’t just a river in Egypt! The degrees of it in our lives vary, but I firmly believe that every single…
Action Plan
Today I want to do a little something together. You’re going to need a pen and paper, because we are going to…
Stop Fat Shaming Yourself with Your Girly Thoughts
“She gained a massive amount of weight . . . it was a real problem.” —Donald Trump …
Technology and Sexual Addiction
In today’s world, pretty much everyone has a laptop, tablet, and/or smartphone. As such, pretty much everyone has 24/7 access to everything…