Grand Island – Here I Come With NO Girly Thoughts
Have you ever gotten something really wrong? Have you ever based your conclusions on little fact and many feelings, and as a…
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Diagnosing Sexual Addiction, Part One: Casual vs. At-Risk vs. Addicted
There are three main criteria for the diagnosis of sexual addiction: Preoccupation to the point of obsession with sexual fantasies and behaviors…
A Brief Encounter with Sexual Politics . . . No Girly Thoughts Allowed
Sexual politics run deep in our responses, even in casual meetings. We act like “dutiful little girls” in our responses, and in…
Get Turned on In The City Of Lights—Schenectady
Many things probably turn you on, as they should. One thing that really turns me on is going to the Electric City.…
Students in Potsdam Are Learning About Girly Thoughts, Why Not You?
I’m so excited . . . I’ve been invited to speak at the State University of New York (SUNY) at Potsdam on…
Being on the Front Page News with No Girly Thoughts
Have you ever been on the front page of your local newspaper? I don’t mean as a cute baby in the Easter…
A Season of Miracles and Second Chances
“I believe in pink. I believe happy girls are the prettiest girls. I believe that tomorrow is another day, and … I…
Giving Up Sex for Lent
I was in my local health food store when I saw a neighbor and we began chatting. When she asked what I…
The Role of Gaslighting in Infidelity and Sexual Addiction
Cindy and Tim When Cindy met Tim, she fell for him almost immediately. “He just came in and swept me off my…
You, Me, & Monica Lewinsky: Four Ways You Can Correct Your Story
If you don’t know yet, Monica Lewinsky has gone public with a Ted Talk. It is well worth seeing because she does…